Oga, you are suffering from both. I have had several carry overs in that course over the years.
Remedial course:
1.If a good is not your good to do, just walk away, don't do it. And don't feel bad that you didn't do it. People are not only ingrates and ungrateful, they are often times self entitled and arrogant about it.
2.You can't solve the problems of the world. Don't play God. And people are not as stranded as they pretend to be, people act up a lot. They enjoy their mess surprisingly, surprise them sometimes by allowing them to "enjoy" or endure their creatures.
3. As a leader, do for people what is right for them even if it hurts you or them, not necessarily what pleases them. Call people to be accountable to their decisions right or wrong. They can only mature or grow through damage and healing over time not over biological age. There are a lot of babies trapped in an adult body.
4. Choose yourself first, in that way you will not feel guilty for not calling them to self help and personal responsibility. Last last, this life is just bet temporarily. When they start paying for their food, their rent, their passion, their irresponsibility, their rascality, their lust, their poor decisions and their loses then they will why the prodigal son came back to his senses and returned home. I can hate 'nansesne'?!
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